Force leads to Violence & abuse. Beguilement leads to subterfuge, meaning an artifice or expedient used to evade a rule, escape a consequence, hide something, etc.
Force
You can’t force someone to do something. For instance, when rearing children, if they don’t want to eat their food, you don’t force them. You find a way to help them help themselves so that they will find pleasure in eating. Forcing the child is a form of abuse. Yelling and fussing at others is another example. When something can’t come to a resolution with calm conversation, its thought that raising ones voice might persuade the other party to see their way. However, this is a form of abuse. Forcing religious doctrine is another form or control.
Violence
Violence is behaviour involving physical force intended to hurt, damage, or kill someone or something. This can go for mental abuse as well.
Matthew 25:52
Then said Jesus unto him, Put up again thy sword into his place: for all they that take the sword shall perish with the sword.
James 4:1-3
From whence come wars and fightings among you? come they not hence, even of your lusts that war in your members? 2 Ye lust, and have not: ye kill, and desire to have, and cannot obtain: ye fight and war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not. 3 Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts.
Abuse
Use something to a bad effect or for a bad purpose; misuse. There are many different types of abuse: teen, child, elderly, adult, woman, male, sexual, animal, and celebrity abuses. Many who are abused have a distorted image of what love and authority truly are.
1 Corinthians 6:10-20
15 Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid. 16 What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh. 17 But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit. 18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. 19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? 20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.
Beguile
Pharmaceuticals give you promises with a twist; they influence you with trickery. Pharmaceuticals give you medicines that mask symptoms, with commercials that evoke an emotionally jarring response in an effort to get the viewer to use the drug, while downplaying the side effects of the drug. Money drives this world. Also, Church ministries get you to worship God without commitment to Him. Many do all the sins in the world that they want and worship Satan, but then they want to come to God to get healed. Social media tries to define who you are by giving you messages that shape your position in the society around you.
